Boundaries, Consent and Communication

This guide is intended as general information for adults. Individual circumstances and applicable rules can differ. Take time to make informed decisions, protect your privacy and seek qualified independent advice where appropriate.

Agree expectations in advance

Use clear, respectful communication to establish what is and is not being discussed. Do not assume that a profile, previous conversation or payment implies agreement to anything beyond the specific arrangement.

Consent is ongoing

Consent must be freely given, specific and capable of being withdrawn. Anyone can change their mind or stop an interaction. A previous yes is not a permanent yes, and silence or reluctance should never be treated as agreement.

Respect refusal

Do not pressure, threaten, bargain with or repeatedly contact someone after they decline. If a boundary is unclear, pause and ask rather than making assumptions. A respectful interaction accepts a no without argument.

Handle changes responsibly

If availability or expectations change, communicate promptly and clearly. Keep records of agreed changes and cancellation terms, but do not use a deposit or fee as leverage to override someone’s decision.